The little things

I am always struck by how life and relationships are really glued together by the spaces in between. It is the little moments between the big events. It exists in the quiet moments and in the unexpected hug or kiss. When my guy is in the shower in the morning I make...

If not now, then when?

“If not now, then when?” One of the worst human conditions is to feel as though you have no options and are trapped in circumstances that don’t work for your well-being. It is easy to believe we are trapped when really multitudes of options exist. It...

Have I arrived yet?

Have I arrived yet? I know I’m not alone in waking up at midlife to realize you never really arrive at your destination. It’s all shifting sand. I used to think….”When I am married and have a home and kids, I will have arrived at my...