Have I arrived yet? I know I’m not alone in waking up at midlife to realize you never really arrive at your destination. It’s all shifting sand. I used to think….”When I am married and have a home and kids, I will have arrived at my destination”. But there is no arriving and no destination. Life is a series of shifts, changes, transitions. The only constant is change. Having been through a divorce, lost a parent, had to reinvent a career and navigate post divorce dating, I am well aware of the strength it takes to keep forward motion. We don’t ever arrive, what we do is dig deep and thrive. The journey is about resilience and perspective and faith and living in the moment. “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey”.